Yes, You CAN Get Her Attention!

Hey there, Pablo Del Rey here....

Here's a contribution from a fellow PUA (pick up artist) named Minor D. The guy rocks. Enjoy his little pick up story.......


Alrighteee then,

Minor here minding the shop again. Rod's going to be
out indefinitely while dealing with some personal stuff.
He says I can write about whatever I want as long as
it's not about my back yard wrestling antics where I
broke my hand last weekend. It's a bummer because I'm
right-handed.

Let's just say my primary girlfriend is bummed out.

Right quick here....Rod told me the feedback from his
last audio tracks were pretty mind-blowing. If you haven't
listened to them yet you can go to:

http://thedatepro.com/afraidnomore.html

There are no techniques or pick up lines there, this is
more about mind set than anything else. And it's the
mind set that's gonna get you the rewards big time! I
'member when I first met Rod. I was the dude hooked on
pick up tactics.

He sez to me "Minor...if you want to elevate your game
you have to elevate your mind."

I guess you can say it took awhile for me to buy into
that. After seeing Rod demonstrate a few things in the
field it got me thinking.

Here's a pick up I want to share with you. I wrote it
a few days ago so I just need to copy and paste it here.

Enoy it my brothers.....


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Barnes-N-Noble Loooove......
by Minor D.
Copyright 2006, @ All rights reserved.


I just got off the phone with Missy. She was all
pissed off because I wouldn't go to the fair with
her. I set her straight a week ago that this weekend
was going to be jam packed and that I wouldn't be
able to spend time with her. So she threw a hissy
fit.

Back in junior high I learned if a girl threw a hissy
fit then I just needed to chill. I would just look
at her and not say a word. And when she finally
calmed down I'd look at her and say "so, are you
done yet?"

This way she knew that hissy fit was improper and
I wasn't havin' any of that.

I couldn't believe myself. I was actually letting Missy
change my state. I needed to relax. It was mid afternoon
so I took off to one of my fav hang out spots in the LBC,
that's Long Beach City for those of you that don't listen
to rap or hip hop, Barnes And Noble bookstore. The one
by the Marina area is pretty cool, so is the Borders right
close to PCH / Bellflower area.

Though I graduated college recently I still date college
girls. I also date older women. Missy is almost 30, but
has a bod like no one's businesses. Anyway, I walk into
BNN Bookstore. I'm wearing my Guess sunglasses, my old
faded Gap Jeans, some random surfer shirt a couple of
kewl necklaces, and a kick ass watch also from Guess.
I'm wearing bright white pumas. I'm young so I can get
away with that.

I head on up to the 2nd floor to the self-help section
to see what's up. I wish I could tell ya that the place
was crawling with hot, young coeds, but that wasn't the
situation. Grandma was in my aisle. Though I'll date
older women, she was a little too old for me. I still
flirted a little with her. A true PUA likes giving
good vibes to everyone. Except drunken dudes who like
grabbing your woman's azz. I don't go for that.

So I sez to her, what a cool necklace you got on. I really
like it. She giggled and said her favorite niece gave it
to her many years ago. And we started talking about
necklaces, family, crap like that. I really liked her.

"Y'know, if I was a little older, I'd ask you out for
coffee."

I made her day. She even grabbed my cheek and said what
a good "boy" I was. Funny being called a "boy" at age
23 huh.

There were a group of mentally-challenged youths all
gathered around a story teller. I walked on over to see
what the buzz was all about. The guy was reading an
excerpt from a children's book. "What a great story!"
Yeah, I had hung out with the group and listened to
the story and made some new friends. I even taught
one of them a judo move, but then the leader said it
probably wasn't a good idea.

There's far more to life than pick up, Rod keeps telling
me. And he's right. Damn....I can't get that dude's
voice outta my brain. What is up with that?

Thinking outloud.

So I get up and am ready to head back to the self-help
aisle when I spot a 2 girl set on the other side of the
top floor. One's a raven-haired beauty and the other
was a pretty cute Asian. They were both cute. They
looked away almost immediately when I looked in their
direction. Hmmm..maybe they were looking my way.

Some guys wait for eye contact. But you don't need it.
Sometimes just having the confidence and composure is
enough. Cute girls get hit on a lot so remember you're
just another guy that's walking over to them, until you
open your mouth.

I don't like to analyze things too much....I prefer to
just go in and say what's on my mind. It helps me
stay natural and real. Girls like men that are real.
And the HOTTER the girl is guys the more she wants you
to be real. And bigger than that is that she wants a
dude who will help her be real too.

So a few seconds later I'm walking up to the 2 girls.
They were looking through some CDs.

"So, is there anything good?" I started off.

Raven Hair: Maybe

Me: Maybe?

Me: (Now looking to the Asian) Is she always this
indecisive?

Cute Asian: Maybe....(giggles)

Me: Oh no, not you too! Great, I'm talking to two
indecisive girls...

Raven: We're not girls, we're women!

Me: Oh yeah? Prove it.

Cute Asian: That's lame, how do we prove it?

Me: Nothing I do or say is ever lame. You'll do
well to learn that if we're going to have a relationship
that will last for years (exaggerating stuff is a good
way to add humor). Besides if you two were really
women you wouldn't be looking at Kelly Clarkson CDs.

Raven: We are totally not looking at that!

Me: Yeah whatever......you two seem to know one another
pretty well. But I also sense that y'all haven't known
one another that long. Tell me I'm wrong.

Raven: Nah, I just met Cindy in the dorms a year ago.

Me: (Turned to Cindy) Cindy nice to meet ya...I'm
Minor D. Friends call me Minor.

Cindy: Nice to meet you too. This is Gina. So do you
go to Cal State?

Me: Nah, I graduated there last year. Fun school. My
mentor graduated from there.

Gina: What's a mentor?

Me: It's a person that you can learn from. I'm sure you
have favorite teachers, coaches, whatever. Even a parent
or big bro can be a mentor.

Gina / Cindy: That's cool!

Gina: So who's your mentor?

Me: (lightly tapping her on the shoulder as if to say
"good one!") Well let's just say about a year ago I meet
this cool kat on Pine Street. And he taught me a lot about
life. For example, he taught me that life was so much more
than meeting cute girls.

Cindy: Duh, I could have told you that.

Me: Yeah, maybe, but it was like really DEEEEP (making a
funny face)......he talked about being in the moment, how
to really notice the little things in life. Like just
an hour ago I was telling that cute lady over there how
pretty her necklace was, I think it made her day.

Gina: That's cute. I think she's a little too old for you.

(Side note: When a girl starts to role-play and/or play
along with you it's a good sign).

Me: Well, she's married so your point is mute. But yeah,
in a different life she might be a little too old.

Cindy: A different life? Do you believe in that stuff?

Me: Sure I do. I'd like to think that in my past life I was
a guy who kicked major ass.

Cindy: (giggles) Kicked major ass in what? Working at
McDonalds?

Me: Yeah of course...I made the best f---ing french fries
and everyone raved how my Quarter Pounder was way better
than any other Quarter Pounder they ever tasted. But then
after my kicking azz behind the MickaDees grill I picture
myself as a great poet.

Gina: You were a poet and didn't even know it? (giggles)

Me: Gee, I never heard that one before........

After a few minutes of small talk.

Me: Ok man, I've got to jet in about an hour....what are you
girls doing right now?

(Give each other the eye codes.....they approve of me).

Gina: (though the more quiet of the two I could tell she was
the Alpha Girl which intrigued me) Well we were gonna pick
up some CDs and the meet up with some friends at Hof's Hut.

Me: I love Hof's Hut. I say we all go there right after you
pick your CDs and have something cool since it's hotter than
the 9th circle of hell outside.

Gina: Forget the CDs, let's go there now.

Cindy: Works for me.

Me: It's just down the street so what are you girls
driving so I can follow you?


Pick up can happen anywhere. I used to think bars and
clubs were the only places a guy my age could hook up.
Then there was MySpace, Hi5 and other such sites. But
when the Rodster taught me that meeting women was a
mind thing I learned that I could meet women anywhere.

You just gotta know how. It takes practice. When I
went to Barnes And Noble I didn't hit on girls right
away because that's not why I went there. I went there
to look for a new book to buy. My best pick ups have
been unplanned ones.

You've got to believe that if a girl gets to know the
REAL you that she'll like you. You've got to have that
confidence. And if you don't have it the only way to
bring it up proper is to get your azz out there and
practice like a machine.

Talking to girls is like learning kung fu. The master
teaches ya how to do the basic stance first. Then he
teaches you a couple of moves based on that basic stance.
It's like learning basic pick up before moving onto
the advanced stuff.

Problem is most dudes want to game the perfect girl
in their eyes and they haven't even gamed enough 5s
and 6s. No one skiis down the advanced slope their
first time because if they try they'll get slaughtered.

Talk about breaking bones.

Try doing back yard wrestling without any practice and
you'll end up with a broken hand.

Pick up is all around you. And you can do it with enough
practice. The thing is don't try and pick up. Go out
into the world and create adventures for yourself. Only
then can you invite the hotties to join you.

More in a few days.

Late,

Minor D.